Wednesday, August 29, 2007

What to do.....

Hey everyone, i've got a bit of a problem and i need some advice from my girls. We all know what it's like to have a crush on someone, some of us may even know what it's like to be 'in love'. But what do u do when ur so hung up on someone it consumes you. I'm not consumed by it yet but i feel it's heading in that direction. I guess my big question here is , what do u do when u like someone but you don't feel worthy? Is it worth waiting around to find out if they are 'for you' if it means waiting to date anyone. I don't want to date anyone if i can't date him but what if someone else great comes along but i miss something cause i'm consumed with him even though there may be no chance of anything happening. I don't think it's fair for anyone if the person they are dating still likes someone else too. But i can't get over these feelings no matter how hard i try. Will i ever get over it? What do i do till then? Will i be single forever because i can't get over one guy? I'm sorry guys i don't usually talk about stuff like this cause at this point in my life there are more important things i'm concentrating on but this is hard. Any advice? it would be greatly appreciated. I love you all and can't wait to see you.

3 comments:

Unknown said...

hey girl. Ok first off you are absolutly GEORGOUS!! and you deserve the BEST!! so never think that you aren't worthy of a guy. and second if you don't want to think of him then try not to talk to him as much but still enough to keep a friendship. if God wants you to go out with him you will and you won't miss anyother guy that you are ment to go out with because God already prepared your life and knows exactly what you will do including what guys you will date and the lucky man you will marry. remember God opens doors no one can shut and shuts doors no one can open. xoxox

Rach said...

awww thanks sammie i love you!it seems to be more complicated then i made it seem and might be hard for me not to think of him when i am his friend but you've helped me out so much sam. i know i could count on you for encouragement and godly wisdom.see ya tonight!

Leanne said...

rachel. i think you are the most beautiful girl i know. and i think that if any boy got to know you, and then didnt like you, that he wouold be crazy. rachel, i totally know what it is like for a boy to consume your thaughts. it happens to me almost constantly. and it sucks, but you just have to remember that God loves you and that is enough. Rachel i love you so much and i think that a boy that you like would like you back.